Chapter 1


Shanice was a young girl who had just joined university.She used to study bachelor of law at The University of Nairobi.She had very rich parents who gave her everything her heart desired.Shanice was a humble social lady who had a heart of gold.
She was known for her enthusiasm and generosity. Everybody wanted to be her friend.During a lunch break after her morning classes,she was approached by a certain man.
“Hey Shanice my name is Justin,I have had a lot about you.”Shanice was mesmerized and said,”Really am so amazed.”Justin sat next to her and the story began.
One month later,they had already become good friends.They used to spend much time together despite Justin being a medical student.Everything seemed like a dream to her and she knew that there was something between her and Justin.
Unexpectedly,Shanice became sick.She was diagnosed with leukemia. She fell into deep depression.Life changed completely for her.Her parents always supported her all the way.Justin stood by her side all the way.
End of chapter one



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The tears,the anguish,the betrayals,the heartbreaks,the despair,the disappointments and many more bumps that happens within each season…

Hey there guys,hope you all good,how about you get a snack and sit back and enjoy the moments of this article.We all have different kinds of puzzles but today i am gonna deal with the disappointment puzzle,I call it enchanted though it holds other more puzzles.Sometimes you just do not get what you wanted or even expected and it always holds us down depending on its intensity.You feel like you wanna lock yourself up and wallow in pain and anguish but you choose to get yourself up and deal with it and move on.The world has all kinds of people and it does not take rocket science for you to know that we have real bonding and fake bonding.

Real bonding and fake bonding are easy to relate with and you will be able to know who belongs in either of the two.You need to be careful with the people that you receive in your circle.Do not get me wrong,no man is an island but you need to be very decisive and accurate.The earlier you know this,the better for you.Personally,I love keeping my circle open,but deep inside I will have studied your motives and played along to your music but definitely I will know when the viper strikes and I will be ten steps ahead of you.The moment you know what your guard is you will be able to deal with what is coming for you.

Disappointments do not occur in friendships only as said above they occur in families too.It is shocking that in this time and error even your own kin can betray you.It is not applicable for someone who you share the same blood with to vent away from you but this is exactly why you need to trust yourself and depend on yourself.We have had incidents where a family member can even kill you out of feeling threatened or seeing you as the most loved ,we can have a father raping his own daughter,it gets worse each and everyday.Life is one boomerang that hits us in all ways and corners and it takes a lot of time for you to know what really has your back at a better place.

The most dire moments in life not only makes us weaker but also stronger.One of the things you need tho have is high self esteem and self worth.You need to know that no matter what anyone tells you,it will not break you down or make you feel inferior and unworthy,you need to have a plan and mission on the important things in your life such as getting a good job,graduating and many more things other than fighting over petty stuff.Let them call it upgraded and pride so long as you know who you are and what you want in life,that is all that matters.

The most precious moments precious in life is when you have inner peace with yourself.The feeling is just amazing.The sacrifices that you make along the way then you end up achieving your goals gives you that feeling of wanting to go harder.I hope I have touched a reader out there!











As I look into your eyes,your smile makes me feel like am floating up above beneath the split sky….

Hey there fans,I hope you all had a good day.Today I want us to talk about sex.YES,SEX!We all know that is very important to know matters concerning the heart and today I will reflect majorly on the importance of sex in relationships.A relationship is built upon a lot of things and it takes times to have that one stable juiciness that we all desire and the so called couple goals but most people shun off intimacy in the name of moral values and celibacy.Do not get me wrong,celibacy is a very priceless virtue and fornication is not a doing preference but for those who indulge in intimate affairs,this is your spot.

Sex is a very magical and exquisite affair that contains different feelings and aftermath consequences.It involves getting deeper into the relationship by knowing and interacting with what lies beneath your partners clothes.It takes two to tango and if you have not come to a unison agreement,it will not be enjoyable.Sex gives one a platform of the beauty and hidden agenda underneath your partner’s physical stature.It enables one to gain an onset on what he or she loves and what makes her loose himself or herself during that moment.It gives lovers a chance to feel the warmth and sweetness blend in each others core and reach a place of magical exposure,

Sex can bring a lot of benefits in a relationship if taken seriously and done in accordance to the sex flow.One gets to make memories and try out new stuff and even get more freaky depending on one’s personality.The moment you begin to embrace this amazing experience,you will discover the things that your lover can do because your adrenaline levels are way up above normal and you just want to get down to business.It brings about correlation between you and your partner and gives the both of you an epic flex of inner sweetness.It affects ones physical and psychological aspects depending on how it is done.

Sex builds a relationship by showing your partner that you trust them by betrothing their private parts to them and it gives one that sense of appreciation and tender romance that fills one heart  with endless beats of magical glimpse and makes one try out amazing ways of making your partner get that one good orgasm that can make their mood be fulfilling for a long time.It makes one feel contented in that,you get satisfied by your one and only and no one else can replace that feeling for you,

Sex has its own way of binding two lovers in a gilt combo that causes nothing but frequent essence of romance that gives one that one of a kind satisfaction from all angles.You cannot have sex with someone who you do not have a mutual bond with,sex among lovers is like making love out of the unexpected advances,it involves a lot of awesome moments unlike this one night stands or hit and run affairs or even friends with benefits escapades.It is special and unique and occurs at its own natural flow.

You have to understand that sex also has its consequences,it can either cause joy or sorrow because if one does not get what he or she expected,it will bring forth issues and even lead to cheating.People think that sex is just a by the way but little do they know it defines a part of a relationship and if not taken with high seriousness it can bring a huge downfall and series of heartbreaks.If you are not ready to go out of the way to satisfy your lover,then you better just avoid having sex.

I believe that you have established an insight on the importance of sex and you will work on it with your partner.Before I close this session,I would like you to subscribe to a my friend’s,Yung Dolla you tube channel below and subscribe and also share:


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She sits down looking at the sky,as she awaits the sunset and watches the sun glow.She imagines the last kiss she shared with her man before he was taken away by the ropes of destiny.Hey guys,I hope you are all good and blossoming.Today I want to talk about the royal woman,her highness.She is a woman who knows when to unleash her veil of thunder and when to be calm and quiet.She has her dark past that made her become who she is today and her endless desire of getting what she wants grows intensively each day.Her tears makes her get fumed up in savagery till she decides to shun it all away and focus on better priorities.She remembers all the memories she shared with her lover and she ends up regretting why he ended up breaking her heart and not appreciating her presence.

Her crown was twisted but she still rules her life,she still hustles everyday to wake up early and do what she has to do so as to be a successful woman.She yearns for the day that she will own an empire and get to prove all her dimwits wrong and place a huge landmark of shame on their faces.She remembers all the pain and betrayal that she went through just to make herself fit in with her fellow peers.It ended up costing her her happiness and inner peace but that did not belittle her endless strengths.She rose up again better and tougher than before.She stopped giving her time and heart to wrong fellas and stopped inducing negativity.

She is now living a simple and peaceful life,her dark past will be recruited by some haters but that will not stop her from reaching her level of exquisite passion.She will not let anyone take her down and she will definitely not entertain fakers and idle munches who are just looking for her attention to make her frustrated.She is an inspiration to many and she speaks of her life story with passion and appreciation.She keeps her kin close and she deserts herself at times just to have time with herself.

She is her highness and she will forever live to declare her priorities.Always learn to accept yourself and set your boundaries.Never try to impress people just to get compliments but instead remain real and true.Pick yourself up from the bumps and make it a straight road.

Have an awesome night!




Life is all about making decisions and you must have a rational mind in order to do this.It is not about what you feel or what you want to be done but it’s all about your principles and self brand .We all have a dark side and sometimes people tend to judge you by it. This is what I call season. Everything is all about seasons. You may want to plant maize but you have to do it at the right time for it to grow and nature into a bountiful harvest.The same case applies to real life choices,one gets married when he or she has found his better half.

Choices have consequences and that is why when you make a bad move ,stress upholds you but when you make a good move,happiness fills your soul. Sometimes you may feel like everything is not working out for you,but that does not mean that you give up.You have to struggle till you reach your destination.

You have to learn to live your own life not considering what people might say or do .Your life concerns you and the moment you put that as your number one priority then you are good to go.Silence is the best medicine for handling negative energy and also walking away. You do not have to prove yourself to anyone.

Success lies behind an innovative brain. You have to be a creative person so as to outshine the rest. Do things your own way and learn to set the pace of your events. Use your failures as your spark of motivation so as to become much more better and greater.

The world does not wait for you to do the necessary and time does not reverse,the earlier you realise this,the better for you !


Hey people… good morning!! It is a whole new year and I bet most of you are excited on your new year resolutions. Well, today I want us to talk about the resolution of love and I will call it, ‘Rebrand. ‘We all want to have that one person who will love and accept us just as we are, someone who will stand up for you in your storms and manna, someone who will accept your strengths and weaknesses, but, people have turned love into a business affair, scratch my back and I scratch yours. What makes you think that you can make your soulmate your business partner? Do you think that will work for you? This is just biased, you cannot have a relationship based on unconditional love. That is just impossible. If you want conditional love, then just stay single and have fun, get different people and make your deals cause you cannot date a person and make their life a living hell.

A relationship is something that needs a lot of nutrients so as to turn out into a beautiful structure that can last for a long to period of time especially for those who believe in long term relationships. If you are someone who does not believe in long term then do short term or rather just get a friend with benefits or even a one night stand. I don’t judge people because you may never know what this person has been through to an extent that he or she just wants to have fun or even sexual encounters with that one friend that he or she desires. The funny thing is that most of this encounters makes one to even get someone who he or she will marry.

Heartbreaks are really painful and have a lot of work. You need to make a decision and tell yourself that even if he or she broke your heart, you are gonna get over it, stand tall and move on. Come on, even a lion can loose its physical stature and still heal and still remain the king of the jungle. A queen may have her crown twisted by someone she loves but still fix it and remain in the royalty physique. The most important thing is to never let yourself be someone’s stepping stone or doormat.

As a woman you need to know that even if you love someone and you do not get the same feedback then this love was toxic. Never fight for a position but let it come its way and the same case applies to men. What’s the use of staying with someone who sees you as a pain in the neck. You choose to walk away because you have your principles and you know your worth. Never bow down to negativity and unproductive affairs.

Well, I leave you with this quote, you may look pretty in the outside but inside you are just a broken piece of a plate, so know your position. Have a good day! ❤


Hey fans…well I know I have not written in a while but schoolwork has been in plenty so you just need to cut me some slack…well first off,happy Mashujaa day…today we celebrate all the heroes who brought independence on our country and now lets go to today’s topic.Shape up or cut off?What comes to your mind with this title?Lemme hit it to you straight and clear,this is all about love and in love we have two options in a relationship,when you have a misunderstanding and things are not taking its good course,you can either decide to solve it with your mate or you break it off.

If someone aint given you the attention and love and appreciation you deserve,why are you even with this person?Yes,love is patient and forgiving but if this person keeps stabbing your heart over and over again then you better walk away before you become depressed or better still unworthy of yourself.A relationship has two people in it and they are a team but if they do not co-ordinate and work together, it will fall down into pieces.Let us picture a house ,you must start with a foundation so that it stays firm, same case applies to love.If you do not have a foundation as a couple,things with go balistic because you have different perspectives and aims.You need to build that trust and honesty ,then start up the communication levels, then start up the stands and goals ,then support each other and you are good to go.

No relationship lacks arguments or challenges and this is where shaping up comes in,if one person hurts the other,just open up to him or her…make sure you listen more than talking,analyse the situation and solve it.Blame game never works and to make it worse,ego ruins a relationship.When your partner decides to walk way,ask yourself what you did before judging him or her.We are all human and no one wants to be treated like trash or better still unappreciated and disrespected.

It is high time people understand the real essensce of love.Love has a connection and flow..it has steps that need to be taken so that it gives birth to the real thing which is,a couple. It needs patience and sacrifice from both parties.There is no way you people will date if you do not have the same goal and perspective…you both have to be ready for it and accept all consequences that comes with it.The issue of bringing third parties to your love life is just a waste of time and a great enemy.It is either you stand with your man or woman or keep listening to haters..it is better to set your man or woman as your priority but in this generation things are changing..women want men for money and pleasure..men want women for sex and benefits. .so it is up to you to choose wisely

Understanding and acceptance is the sister of wisdom..you have to love and understand and accept each other so that both of you will have a happy relationship…I love you is a three letter word but means alot …do not just tell someone’ I love you’ but your actions state otherwise…be true and real and most of all,straight to the point.Love is not all about sex..you two need to build each other spiritually,psychologically and help each other in aspirations and in getting achievements.Love has alot of work just like how you run a company ,you two need to be good directors of your love life.Have goals and compliment and be loyal and faithful to each other and be there for each other in good and bad times.And if things go well you two will even end up getting married later on,would you not love that?

Well that is all for today…I leave you with this quote,do not expect manna to come to you but make that manna yourself..work for what you want and set your standards,do not do things to get attention or approval from people,do it for yourself so as to have a bright future.

Have a wonderful afternoon…❤😜


Hey fans ….I hope you are all good..Today is a good day because we are going to talk about suicide,how to prevent it ,how to deal with a suicide victim and the dos and donts on handling a suicide victim.Yestrday was world suicide day and I was reading an article on yesterday’s healthy nation segment on suicide,it touched my heart because I am a victim of suicide.I have attempted suicide four times and it was not an easy experience.It was a very painful experience because it brought about guilt and regret.It also affect my aquintances and family.It made me feel disappointed because I discovered I could have handled it in a different way.The cause of my suicide attempts are categorized into two..the three attempts were back in high school and the reason for it was because am usually epileptic and some of my peers used to make fun of me and bully me.. The second category was last month and the reason for it was being cyber bullied and feeling worthless due to my past mistakes.It was not a walk over because I had undergone a serious depression and trauma and if it were not for my family,I do not think I could overcomed this storm.After the suicide,you always get judged and apprehended but little do they know,that this may cause the person attempting suicide again.Some of the ways of knowing someone has suicidal thoughts is by(content from the healthy nation article by counsellorHiram Chomba,a psychotherapist at Befrienders Kenya,an organisation that aims to relieve mental suffering.):

1.When is feeling overwhelmed with unbearable emotional pain.

2.Feeling hopeless,like there is no point in living.

3.Being consumed by negative and disturbing thoughts.

4.Seeing suicide as the only solution to your problems

5.Imagining that death will provide relief

6.Thinking that everyone would be better off without you.

7. Feeling worthless and lonely.

8.Not understanding why you feel or think above thoughts

Those are some of the reasons that most people end up commiting suicide.They are not aware of the outcome because all they want is to die and everything else is not their concern.Some victims suffer from mental illnesses,financial issues and distress.Most mental patients do not have the necessary funds to attain the necessary medication that they require and also for the psychotherapy.This is why we need to offer a listening ear to this victims so as to prevent him or her from attempting or commiting suicide.Judging ,stigmatisation,discrimination will not help.Sending the person to a jail term will not help because this is an issue that need psychological help.Resolving the issue is the number one issue in dealing with a suicide victim.Accepting that person and showing them love and care is also paramount.Avoiding drugs and alcohol is also a major factor to consider.Focusing on getting through it one day at a time is essential.Personally,I am still recovering from my suicidal attempt of last month and it is not a cup of tea.You have to accept that it happened and work on becoming a better person .It is not our mistakes that defines but how you fix your flaws that defines.Failure is totally normal, what matters is what you do to change the situation.Self time is very important,you need to reflect upon yourslef,you need to have your on time and space ,this will help you to discover yourself more and your self worth,self value and self esteem will improve.Learn to let go of past issues in order for you to have inner peace.Learn to forgive those who wronged the best way to handle an irrational person is by showing kindness.This will make them see that you are of great importance and it will make them see that no matter what they do,you will still be you and you will still work towards acquiring your dreams and expectations.

Preventing one from attempting suicide can be done in various ways.You need to know that this person has a suicidal mentality,how you handle him or her matters alot.Always ensure that you are giving a listening ear rather than a condeming ear.This will make the person feel at ease.Advise them to seek psychological help for this will help them to overcome their distress and it will make them live a normal life like anyone else.If it is a person suffering from a mental illness such as epilepsy,bipolar,schizophrenia and many more,ensure they take their medication as prescribed and that they avoid anything that will stress them out.Do not leave the person alone if they are in danger or rather if there are harmful things around them .Always stay in tiuch with the person and assure the person that all will be well.Do not be aggresive or rather do not pressurise the person.This will lead to severe depression and trauma.Ensure that you offer your time and effort so as help this person recover.

I believe that being positive is the key to handling mistakes.Be rest assured that not everyone will understand your situation,some will mock you,insult you,judge you,stigmatize you,discriminate you and many more negative imprehents but it is up to you to decide who you want to be.Never allow someone to get to you,be calm and avoid being raged for this will lead to bad turn of events.Learn to accept yourself wholesomely and do not seek sympathy or apathy from people.It takes a confidence and guts to open up to the world about this and trust me you,it took me great courage to write this or even share it with people because you have to be strong and stable for we have all kinds of people.My aim is to help other suicide victims and also make people aware of suicide and how to deal with a victim.I hope you will support me in my upcoming campaign on suicide awareness.Have a lovely evening!


Hey fans,I hope you are well and you are keeping warm because it is one chilly morning.Today I want us to discuss about growth.This aint related to Biology😂😂but to life experiences.What is growth?Growth is whereby you outgrow some major flaws and cornerstones or rather when you overcome the storms and you become whole and new.It is the moment when all your struggles such as anger,bitterness ,jelousy,hate and many more come to an end.It transforms you into a more mature and responsible person.Let us go throw the advantages of growth and how you can reach this phase.

Firstly,accept the situation and turn of events.The moment you realize what really happened and you major on to it,you will discover the root of this situation and you find a solution to it,which is:forgiving oneself,letting go and working towards being a better person everyday.You will release a package that was holding you down and uplift your motives and aspirations.

Secondly,do not blame others.Never blame others for your own mistakes.It does not benefit you at any cost.It will make you much more bitter and angry thus leading you into a stressful momentum which will only cause you pain and anguish.The moment you tell yourself this:’I was created for a purpose,I have made mistakes and I am not perfect,but I am going to work on myself,dealing with other people’s flaws and errors is not my business.’ This statement will make you realize that you were born to be the ruler and mender of your life and God has given you all the necessary platforms and resources.Make use of it instead of involving yourself in non sensical matters that will not benefit you.

Thirdly,know your worth.The moment you discover your self worth,the better for you.You will value yourself and take care of yourself accordingly.You will strive towards having inner peace and you will always reflect on your own goals and dreams.You will not consider the baggage of extras but you will focus on you as a person.Ask yourself these,why do I have to love myself?Why should I seek approval from people?Why should I focus on negativity?Once you see this,you will know that self worth is more important because it defines who you are.

Fourthly,set your priorities right.Do not indulge yourself in activities that do not add value in your life.Remember that the future is in your hands and the moment you twist it,things will take a wrong turn.You should be working towards being a better person in the society.Work smart in achieving your goals,be it studies,work,hobby and talent,make sure you have improved on it every single day.

Fifthly,keep good company.The people you roll with should have the same perspectives and aspects that you have.You cannot associate yourself with irrational people and expect to be rational.Show me your friends and I will tell you your character.Do not allow peer pressure to get the best of you.You may have all the wealth in the world but if you are irrational,it is much as loosing your own self.It is better to be called a loner for having real friends other than being admired for rolling with unsubstantial friends.

Lastly,be consistent and persistent.Always strive to do things as they are supposed to be done.Do not let the storms take you down but let the storms take you to higher and better levels.You owe no one an explanation for all the things you have done in your life,be it positive or negative.Be happy and grateful because God will always stand by you,that is why He is merciful and grateful.He is loving and caring,His love is unconditional and His reward is the best.

I leave you with this quote,aspirations and dreams can only be fulfilled when you set your mind towards it and you work hard and smart into making it a reality.Have a beautiful and productive day!


Hey people,it is one chilly Sunday but it is the day we all go to church or others stay at home listening to gospel and some watch live sermons on television.Well,today I was watching Joel Osteen’s live sermon and I must say it was a blessing to me because he talked about the current situation am going through and it has given me fulfillment and relief.Today our topic is called chain breaking that is what Joel Osteen talked about,so I am gonna write what I learnt and understood and also some of my tips too.

Firstly,what is chain breaking?This is whereby you start releasing all the yorks in your life,you let go of all the burdens in your life and you have freedom of perspect and get rid of the bound perspect.We always keep our yorks thinking it is normal but it aint normal.God created us to be happy,peaceful and fulfilled.He did not bring you into this world so as to undergo trauma,depression,guilt,divorce,hate,bullying and many more burdens.He has a purpose for you and no matter what anyone says or does that purpose has to be fulfilled.Some things are beyond our control and that is why we turn to God to give us fulfillment and hope.You need to have faith and patience for what God has in store for you is more wonderful and precious.All those downfalls you have been through will be turned into blessings and unending success.

Secondly,you need to forgive and forget.Forgiveness is the hardest thing to do especially if you had placed this person at a higher bar in your life.Be it heartbreak,betrayal,disloyalty,back stabbing and many more,you need to forgive and forget.Forgiving that person does not mean you let them in into your life again,no,you are just releasing that bitterness in you.Today I reflected on my life while listening to the sermon and said,it is time for me to forgive all those who wronged me in one way or the other and for those who I wronged too I believe they will see I have moved on from that anger and bitterness.There is nothing as painful as trusting someone with your flaws and then they use it as your weakness.It is so wrong and mean.No one is perfect,we are all sinners before God and that is why we all pray to Him to give us comfort and inner peace.Crying does not mean you are weak, but it helps us release that pain and it makes you calm.Cry it all out and release the pain and bitterness.

Thirdly,starting a new chapter,you need to learn that in life,cornerstones and challenges will always be there but how you react to it is what matters.I decided that proving myself to people and trying to make people be reasonable and rational is not my work but theirs.No one controls your life but yourself.God has given us the necessary resources and as the ruler of your life,you need to make appropriate decisions and take rational actions.Do not make decisions while you are bitter or angry.It will cost you alot of things afterwards.If you tell someone something and they do not see its essence,leave that person alone.How they react to it is none of your business but making yourself better and setting your priorities right is your business.Let the Holy Spirit be your guide.

Fourthly,God is your source of strength and hope and everything.No human being can do the things God has done for you.Human is to error.Even your own blood can judge and criticize you but God will receive you with open arms.For He is merciful and kind.He has the final say and if He says he has a purpose and plan for you,accept it.If you do your part,God will do His.Let no one make you feel lesser of a person.He or she has no power of determining your fate.God is the beginning and end and there is no one like Him.He will stand with you during the storm and also during the sunshine,so just be grateful and always seek Him because he never fails.

Fifthly,take responsibility,whatever you do always know that you are responsible of the aftermath.Do not look at the speck of someones eye and forget about the log in your own eye.Learn to discover your flaws and note that you cannot have inner peace if you do not consider other people’s feelings.Whether one is rich or poor,healthy or sick,strong or weak,respect is a two way traffic.Do unto others what you expect them to do unto you.A faithful friend is a strong defence,and whoever has found one has found a treasure because in this era having that one friend who will stand by you at all costs is not easy.Friendship is not about competing or throwing shades,it is about building each other up and accepting each other.You need to know each others weaknesses and protect each other.Never judge one another.You do not know why that person did what he or she did and you have not walked in his or her shoes so why lament and judge and what will you gain from it?Will it make you a hero?Will it make you earn more money or score higher grades?Always ask yourself these questions before hurting and tarnishing someones reputation.

Sixthly,people always change,you need to know that binadamu ni kinyonga na hakuna ambaye atakupenda unavyojipenda.You need to stop seeking consolence from people and seeking apathy and sympathy.Personally,I used to do that only when I underwent a serious downfall and discovered that I have been wasting myself and making irrational decisions.I discovered that people only stand by you when they need something from you but once that is done,they dissolve like sugar in water.You need to take this downfalls positively and learn from your mistakes.Throwing shades at each other will not help but will cause more anguish and pain .Keep in mind not everyone views life as you do.We all come from different backgrounds and we were all brought up differently,so do not expect people to be like you,talk like you and reason like you.

Lastly,be consistent,consistency is the key to your breakthrough.Always be firm and stable,it is not easy but you need to do that.Some things in life happen for a reason and at a season.You may say,why am I undergoing all these problems?why are they always judging me and insulting me?why am I not happy like so and so?Listen up,never blame yourself for the wrongs of others and never explain your deeds to anyone.Never compare your journey with someone else.Just be you and do you and love you.No one leads your ride other than you.

Have a beautiful afternoon and I leave you with these quotes,silence is the key and it says alot more than you think.Disability and weakness is not inability.Be inspired before you expire.Be a living testimony !


Hey people…it is such a beautiful morning and this week i have observed some things so get a comfy place …sit back and relax because I will be handling three topics in one,that is,natural beauty,fakerism and dresscode.We all want a lavish life,we want to be spotted by our fellow peers,we want to ball and floss but how you do it is what matters..Let us start with the first topic,natural beauty.Natural beauty is how someone was created without any other extras such as make up,bleaching,filters and many more .Do not get me wrong using make up is okay and it makes one look so pretty but the thing is do you love and accept your natural look?Do you admire your natural self?Using filters in pictures is okay.Personally,I love snapchat but that does not mean I forget to love the natural me .It is just a photo,it does not define who I am.Bleaching is changing your natural skin tone which later affects your skin during your prime ages.It will mess you up but it is a free world.

Natural beauty is much appreciated especially if you accept yourself.Peer pressure can lead you into doing some stupid stuff just to seek approval and compliments from people .Why waste your time rebuilding yourself?Why hate yourself over petty issues?No one can love you like you love yourself.The moment you accept who you are and stand firm on it,your self esteem and self worth will always be stable.I know it aint easy but the only way you will have consistency is by minding negative people and associating yourself with positive people.Beauty is not about how sexy or admirable you are,it is much more about character and personality.How do you handle yourself?How do you deal with your past?It takes courage and zeal and confidence.Assertiveness is very important,personally,I am one assertive and confident woman.Negativity has always been my push through,it makes me work more harder and smarter.You cannot keep proving your beauty to people and seeking approval for it.Look yourself at the mirror,the person you see is your most loyal and unique friend,and that is you.

Fakerism is the most difficult problem happening among the youths and one needs to discover himself and know what his or her priorities are in life.Why fake your personality to get admiration and approvals?How would you feel when the truth is finally exposed?You may say that you do not care but the moment the pressure increases,you will end up having low self esteem.Personally,I always keep my life so real and true and it has caused me pain and anguish but I came to realize that whether you are a good or bad person,people will always judge you.Fakerism is like a weed,the more you water it,the more it grows but if you uproot it,it will wilter.Do not do things for people but for yourself.I used to prove myself to people and seek approval from people but all I got was insults,judgement and bullying It was the most painful moment but I take it positively because it has taught me to be more positive and rational.I do not regret anything that I did in my past because I would not have learnt some of the things I have learnt today,so my reader,be wise and do not blame yourself for anything but instead change the story.The ending is what matters and how you react.Irrational behaviour is a choice.Excuses are just mild stones but realness is a treasure.It takes courage to accept your past and it takes confidence to share it out.I will not stop telling people about my past experiences because I would not want someone to go through what I did.Silence is gold..positivity has turned me into a very rational and more mature person.I chose to set my priorities right and straight because I am the leader of my life and I owe no one an explanation.The person who judges you,is envious of how strong you are,they expected your downfall and storm not to end but once you outgrew it and became whole and new,it pricks their soul.Never let negativity to take you back but instead let it take you two steps ahead.

Dresscode can be defined in so many ways.I will focus on personal dresscode and fashion sense.It is all about what you like to wear and what suits you.No one is entitled to control how you dress..The fact that I like mini skirts and dresses,shorts,cleavages,jeans and many more does not define my inner soul.Yes,they say if you dress like a whore, you will be called a whore,who said wearing short clothes makes one a whore?This is so wrong,it is high time people change their perspective towards things.One may dress like a nun or priest but deep inside he or she is the perfect epitome of wickedness and cheapness.How someone dresses does not entail their character.How someone talks and behaves is what matters.Do not have that impact of looking at someone’s dressing and be fooled.Get to know that person yourself.Haters will always exist but that should not make you feel inferior.Girl if you want to slay,go ahead and do it,let no one make you feel unworthy.Boy,if you wanna rock like Jidenna or Chris Brown go ahead.It is one’s personal choice on what kind of dresscode and fashion sense he or she wants but do not go to the extreme and forget your self respect and dignity!

That is all for today,I leave you with this quote,learn to accept responsibility for your mistakes and always respect people because what goes around comes around,never judge someone for you do not know why he or she did that.Just like sauti sol and nyashinski’s song :Jiangalie☺

Have an awesome weekend💗